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How to Speak Effectively

How to Speak Effectively

A guide to engaging conversations, presentations, and making an impact on people.There's just something about some people. They have IT. They have something that makes people want to stop and listen to them. Well, that's teachable!Practical steps to improve every interaction by at least 1%.How to Speak Effectively is like a field-tested guide to the battlefield of social interactions. There is no fluff, and it dives directly into tips you can apply on a daily basis, that are realistic and non-theoretical. The truth is, there are a metric ton of small signals that determine whether or not people will want to engage with you. But how many of them do you know? This book will take you into the intricacies of conversation and show you how to clearly communicate, speak with influence, and always be heard.Exactly what to say, how to say it, and how to make people remember you.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.A deep dive into social psychology and what makes people like us.-A ladder of inference to use in any social interaction-Five types of communication tones and why you're using the wrong one-How to use your words like an artist with paint-Asking the right questions and methods for better listening-So-called trash words and how to eliminate them from your vocabulary-Getting through tough conversations with ease and graceLearn to clearly communicate with anyone, on any topic.

Thinking with Your Hands

Thinking with Your Hands

An astounding account of how gesture, long overlooked, is essential to how we learn and interact, which “changes the way you think about yourself and the people around you.” (Ethan Kross, bestselling author of Chatter) We all know people who talk with their hands—but do they know what they’re saying with them? Our gestures can reveal and contradict us, and express thoughts we may not even know we’re thinking.  In Thinking with Your Hands, esteemed cognitive psychologist Susan Goldin-Meadow argues that gesture is vital to how we think, learn, and communicate. She shows us, for instance, how the height of our gestures can reveal unconscious bias, or how the shape of a student’s gestures can track their mastery of a new concept—even when they’re still giving wrong answers. She compels us to rethink everything from how we set child development milestones, to what’s admissible in a court of law, to whether Zoom is an adequate substitute for in-person conversation.   Sweeping and ambitious, Thinking with Your Hands promises to transform the way we think about language and communication.

Presence

Presence

MORE THAN HALF A MILLION COPIES SOLD: Learn the simple techniques you'll need to approach your biggest challenges with confidence.  Have you ever left a nerve-racking challenge and immediately wished for a do over? Maybe after a job interview, a performance, or a difficult conversation? The very moments that require us to be genuine and commanding can instead cause us to feel phony and powerless. Too often we approach our lives' biggest hurdles with dread, execute them with anxiety, and leave them with regret.By accessing our personal power, we can achieve "presence," the state in which we stop worrying about the impression we're making on others and instead adjust the impression we've been making on ourselves. As Harvard professor Amy Cuddy's revolutionary book reveals, we don't need to embark on a grand spiritual quest or complete an inner transformation to harness the power of presence. Instead, we need to nudge ourselves, moment by moment, by tweaking our body language, behavior, and mind-set in our day-to-day lives.Amy Cuddy has galvanized tens of millions of viewers around the world with her TED talk about "power poses." Now she presents the enthralling science underlying these and many other fascinating body-mind effects, and teaches us how to use simple techniques to liberate ourselves from fear in high-pressure moments, perform at our best, and connect with and empower others to do the same.Brilliantly researched, impassioned, and accessible, Presence is filled with stories of individuals who learned how to flourish during the stressful moments that once terrified them. Every reader will learn how to approach their biggest challenges with confidence instead of dread, and to leave them with satisfaction instead of regret."Presence feels at once concrete and inspiring, simple but ambitious — above all, truly powerful." —New York Times Book Review

The Yes Factor

The Yes Factor

The premier guide to combining verbal and nonverbal communication to gain confidence, establish credibility and make lasting impressions Yes—a small word, but the key to opening doors both professional and personal. The power of The Yes Factor gets you the job, the promotion, or the second date. But getting a "yes" can be tricky. Tonya Reiman explains how communication works—what the words you speak actually say about you, and how the perfect pitch can help you achieve your goals, convince your boss or client you should get the account, give a killer presentation, or win control of the remote (without ticking off your spouse!). Combining verbal and nonverbal tricks—identifying types of communicators, recognizing subconscious motivations, and adopting covert communication techniques-The Yes Factor is a simple approach to influencing and framing communication so that your message resounds clearly, ensuring that your ideas are implemented effectively and that you present your best possible self. A leading body language expert and Fox News contributor, Reiman's accessible prose, firsthand anecdotes, step-by-step advice, sidebars, diagrams, and short quizzes make The Yes Factor the ultimate how-to for exuding confidence, establishing authority, gaining credibility, and making the lasting impression that will get you a "yes" everytime.Watch a Video

Body Language Training Guide

Body Language Training Guide

"ANNOUNCING...THE BODY LANGUAGE BOOK THAT MAKES IT RIDICULOUSLY EASY TO READ PEOPLE" Are you struggling to understand and be understood by other people (friends, family, dating, negotiations etc)? Do you want a virtual Xray that reveals what they may be thinking and emotions they're betraying through body language and nonverbal communications? Would you like to level up your persuasion and seduction skills? Then this is the perfect book for you! By learning to communicate, interpret and persuade on the nonverbal communication channel, we can better understand and be understood by those around us. Imagine the seemingly superpowers you'll gain from having special insight into people's minds and hearts? Because only you know this, how can you not stand out? Would this skill possibly help you in your job, business, close more sales, improve relationships, even help in your love and sex life perhaps? This is a quick, but well written guide to acquiring the art and skill of body language communication! From general, to specific and context dependent body language communications--this book has it. It will also explain why body language is universal in most cases, which originates from both biological and environmental influences. You will learn: How you can change your emotions with body language How to read and project body language cues for seduction, confidence, power How to read facial signals How to detect lies How to make people like you How to make people more comfortable with body language Body language from different cultures Body language and use of space and territories and much, much more... If you're ready to level up your body language communication and persuasion? DOWNLOAD IT NOW

Manipulation

Manipulation

Do you want Master the Art of Manipulation to protect yourself and improve your social life?  Manipulation is just one of the strands of what is known as dark psychology. It can often stir up negative connotations when it is used by people like narcissists who simply want their own way all the time, but it can be an extremely useful tool when it comes to negotiating and conducting business or other transactions. The skills you are about to learn, can't be used for evil, so please stop reading now if you still doubt your intentions. Good, you are still here! I am about to share with you some of the most powerful psychology tactics that you'll find in this book.  You Will Learn:How to recognize (and protecting yourself from) emotional manipulationWhile enriching your social lifeHow to read verbal and non-verbal communicationHow to master covert manipulation and persuasionHow to influence love and relationshipsAnd much more!  No matter your goals in life, these psychological tricks are vital to your success. Get this book today! And discover how to master persuasion, influence others, and begin your journey to your ideal life!

Mind in Motion

Mind in Motion

An eminent psychologist offers a major new theory of human cognition: movement, not language, is the foundation of thoughtWhen we try to think about how we think, we can't help but think of words. Indeed, some have called language the stuff of thought. But pictures are remembered far better than words, and describing faces, scenes, and events defies words. Anytime you take a shortcut or play chess or basketball or rearrange your furniture in your mind, you've done something remarkable: abstract thinking without words. In Mind in Motion, psychologist Barbara Tversky shows that spatial cognition isn't just a peripheral aspect of thought, but its very foundation, enabling us to draw meaning from our bodies and their actions in the world. Our actions in real space get turned into mental actions on thought, often spouting spontaneously from our bodies as gestures. Spatial thinking underlies creating and using maps, assembling furniture, devising football strategies, designing airports, understanding the flow of people, traffic, water, and ideas. Spatial thinking even underlies the structure and meaning of language: why we say we push ideas forward or tear them apart, why we're feeling up or have grown far apart. Like Thinking, Fast and Slow before it, Mind in Motion gives us a new way to think about how--and where--thinking takes place.

I Can Read You Like A Book

I Can Read You Like A Book

Are you in business, journalism, law enforcement, or medicine? Do you face students in a classroom or criminals in a courtroom? Are you in a relationship or looking for one? Do you have children? Then you need the skills to read them like a book!I Can Read You Like a Book features a system for scanning and interpreting anyone's body language, enabling you to figure out what they are really saying or feeling:Review: Check out someone quickly, from head to toe.Evaluate: Know what to look for; notice what's relevant.Analyze: Spot voluntary versus involuntary movements; factor in gender, context, culture.Decide: Draw your conclusion.Step by step, you will develop the same skills the best interrogators and detectives use to assess spies, criminals, and witnesses. As part of the process, you will observe some of the most famous people in the world through interrogator Greg Hartley's eyes. You'll discover what emotions these politicians, pundits, and stars are leaking through their body language and facial expressions, and what their answers (or non-answers) are really saying.I Can Read You Like a Book gives you the fastest, most efficient method to read body language. In any kind of face-to-face competition, first encounters or daily encounters, and even watching the news, you will spot the messages and emotions that people are really sending—whether they know it or not. As a bonus, you will learn how to use your own face and body to your advantage, whether you're trying to evade a difficult question, handle a sensitive situation, or just playing poker!

Dark Psychology: Discover How To Analyze People and Master Human Manipulation Using Body Language Secrets, Covert NLP, Mind Control, Subliminal Persuasion, Hypnosis, and Speed Reading Techniques.

Dark Psychology: Discover How To Analyze People and Master Human Manipulation Using Body Language Secrets, Covert NLP, Mind Control, Subliminal Persuasion, Hypnosis, and Speed Reading Techniques.

Unlock the Secrets of Dark Psychology and Master Human ManipulationDo you want to master the art of analyzing people and use human manipulation techniques to your advantage? Dive into Dark Psychology: Discover How To Analyze People and Master Human Manipulation Using Body Language Secrets, Covert NLP, Mind Control, Subliminal Persuasion, Hypnosis, and Speed Reading Techniques—your ultimate guide to unlocking the hidden strategies of influence and control.In a world where understanding human behavior is key to success, this book provides you with the tools to analyze people with precision and master covert manipulation techniques. Whether you're looking to excel in business, improve personal relationships, or simply enhance your persuasive abilities, the powerful insights offered here will set you apart.Key Insights:- Master Human Manipulation: Learn how to get what you want in any situation—be it in business, romance, or everyday interactions—by applying advanced NLP mind control techniques, subliminal persuasion, and hypnosis.- Analyze People Like a Pro: Discover the secrets of body language, speed reading, and psychological tactics to effortlessly understand what others are thinking and feeling, even before they speak.- Unlock the Power of Dark Psychology: Gain a deep understanding of what makes people tick and leverage this knowledge to influence and control outcomes to your favor.- A Whole New World of Possibilities: Once you’ve mastered these techniques, you’ll see the world through a new lens, enabling you to navigate social dynamics with unmatched skill and confidence.If you’re a fan of The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, Influence by Robert Cialdini, or The 48 Laws of Power, you’ll love this book. It’s perfect for those who want to take their understanding of human psychology and influence to the next level.Take control of your life today—get the book and start reading!

Atomic Habits

Atomic Habits

THE PHENOMENAL INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER: OVER 20 MILLION COPIES SOLD WORLDWIDETransform your life with tiny changes in behaviour, starting now.People think that when you want to change your life, you need to think big. But world-renowned habits expert James Clear has discovered another way. He knows that real change comes from the compound effect of hundreds of small decisions: doing two push-ups a day, waking up five minutes early, or holding a single short phone call.He calls them atomic habits.In this ground-breaking book, Clears reveals exactly how these minuscule changes can grow into such life-altering outcomes. He uncovers a handful of simple life hacks (the forgotten art of Habit Stacking, the unexpected power of the Two Minute Rule, or the trick to entering the Goldilocks Zone), and delves into cutting-edge psychology and neuroscience to explain why they matter. Along the way, he tells inspiring stories of Olympic gold medalists, leading CEOs, and distinguished scientists who have used the science of tiny habits to stay productive, motivated, and happy.These small changes will have a revolutionary effect on your career, your relationships, and your life.________________________________A NEW YORK TIMES AND SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER'A supremely practical and useful book.' Mark Manson, author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck'James Clear has spent years honing the art and studying the science of habits. This engaging, hands-on book is the guide you need to break bad routines and make good ones.' Adam Grant, author of Originals'Atomic Habits is a step-by-step manual for changing routines.' Books of the Month, Financial Times'A special book that will change how you approach your day and live your life.' Ryan Holiday, author of The Obstacle is the WayNumber 1 Sunday Times bestseller, August 2023New York Times bestseller, April 2024Atomic Habits has sold over 1 million copies in all formats [Nielsen BookScan UK and Circana Bookscan US, April 2024]

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned : A Guide to Teenage Mistakes and Growth

Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned : A Guide to Teenage Mistakes and Growth

Adolescence is a tumultuous journey, marked by inevitable mistakes. In "Mistakes Made, Lessons Learned," we explore common errors in academics, relationships, personal development, finances, and goal setting, providing practical guidance for teenagers. By understanding and embracing their mistakes, young adults can transform them into valuable lessons, fostering resilience and personal growth. This book equips teenagers with the tools to navigate adolescence confidently, emerging as wiser and more resilient individuals, ready to tackle the challenges of adulthood.

The Art of Social Excellence

The Art of Social Excellence

Henrik Fexeus uses his expert psychology knowledge to teach the reader how to hone their social skills, perfect for fans of Dale Carnegie.Research has increasingly shown that nonverbal communication prowess is absolutely essential in seemingly unrelated areas of our lives (investment decisions, salary levels, etc.). However, as our society becomes more modernised and we incorporate new forms of technology into our daily interactions, we are becoming less and less capable of understanding one another as we should.In The Art of Social Excellence, Henrik Fexeus combines his own expert knowledge as a mentalist with psychology studies to create a complete guide to social interaction. He covers it all: from overcoming your conversational fears in a large group of people, to excelling in the workplace, to winning an argument with your partner. He breaks down various rhetorical strategies in detail and provides helpful steps and checklists for the reader to check their progress in a social encounter.Anyone who has ever felt awkward or misunderstood in social situations will benefit from reading this book, and with proper implementation of Fexeus' principles, can achieve superior social skills.