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Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others

Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others

Expressing what you want isn’t selfish, it’s prioritizing yourself. Do you have that habit? You don’t have to be “nice” to everyone if it means being mean to yourself. Learn to prioritize yourself and finally do only what you want to do. The need to please is powerful, but it causes anxiety, stress, and resentment. Time to change your patterns. Stand Up For Yourself is direct and no-nonsense. That’s because the way you prioritize others and let them stomp all over your boundaries isn’t working, so you need a change. This book teaches you how to reverse these mini-decisions, and internalize the belief that you are worth it, you are valuable, and you deserve it. Because you are, and you do. Understand the psychology of people pleasing and how to stop it with actionable techniques. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Reprogram your beliefs and learn how to set boundaries that others can’t ignore. Understand the psychology of letting others walk all over you, and why it makes perfect logical sense How to break the fear of being yourself by being more generous and accepting Knowing your self-narratives and changing them with swift action The real psychology behind conflict and why it can appear so scary A multitude of actionable and realistic ways to say NO to anyone How to chart the progress of your journey to loving yourself more fully Ditch being a doormat and become assertive Find your voice, stand up for yourself, and put yourself first. It’s your life, so live it for yourself!

How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth

How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth

Learn to quickly read people and draw conclusions from seemingly innocent and easy questions. Some people are forthcoming, and others are not so much. Either they are guarded, or they are deliberately hiding something. Well, whatever the case, this book is how you crack them and learn exactly what they aren’t saying. Tips from FBI interrogators, psychologists, and famous lawyers. How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth turns you into an expert reader of intentions, behavior, thoughts, and emotions. The tips in this book are used by professionals to extract valuable knowledge worth millions of dollars.You’ll read about body language, speed reading, thin slicing, and every other technique that has been scientifically proven.The goal of this book is to arm you with tools to uniquely understand and peel back the layers on people before they even know it. No one will be a puzzle to you anymore. How to subtly direct a conversation to exactly what you want. Exactly what to look and listen for. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Protect yourself from those trying to probe you.

Awkward Silences and How to Prevent Them

Awkward Silences and How to Prevent Them

Struggle to hold people’s attention and keep them interested? Always feel stuck in boring interview mode? Whether you want to befriend strangers more easily, banter more smoothly with friends, or simply avoid the crushing tension of a never ending silence, Awkward Silences is the book you need to succeed. No more conversations that end prematurely - not by choice. Discover the subtle and nuanced tactics that allow you to seize control of any conversation and create social chemistry. This book will arm you with definitive tactics, maneuvers, and replies to whatever comes your way. This book is highly actionable, with step-by-step analyses of complex concepts like sarcasm, the ultimate witty comeback, conflict conversations, and storytelling. You’ll get exact words and phrases, NOT just “be confident and make eye contact.” Avoid those embarrassing, cringe-worthy moments. In Awkward Silences, you have renowned social skills and international bestselling author Patrick King showing you the ropes. Social interaction can be boiled down to a science if approached correctly, and he’ll do it for you. Never feel boring or uninteresting again. •How to set an engaging tone right off the bat.•The vocabulary and inflection details that make you attractive.•Storytelling essentials - unlike anything you’ve read before.•Elements of sarcasm, witty comebacks, and self-deprecation. Push people’s buttons that instantly make them responsive and interested. •How to introduce conversational diversity and break out of your patterns and routines.•Six types of responses you can summon in any situation.•Your habits that lead directly to awkward silences.•Common awkward situations and how to handle them correctly. Demonstrate social value and grace.

How To Say No

How To Say No

Finally get what you deserve and stop “letting it slide” - without guilt, fear, or awkward tension. Saying no - just thinking about it sounds awkward, right? But that’s the barrier between you living your own life, and living for others. Get what you want, starting immediately. Stop sacrificing your own needs. Quit the agreeableness and accommodation habit. How to Say No examines the psychology of those unable to stand up for themselves. It’s not as simple as wanting to avoid awkwardness, and it’s not about the correct sequence of words. You’l dive deep and learn about your beliefs that are holding you back, as well as how to conquer them in short time.Saying no is the most liberating thing you can do for yourself, and this book tells you how to get there from inside to out. Swift tactics to gain respect, set boundaries, and ask for what you really want. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. How to decisively say NO and stop being taken advantage of. •The counter mindsets you must change, and the mindsets you must replace them with•A multitude of categories for how to asset yourself•The easiest and least tense ways to simply say NO•An examination of your beliefs surrounding acceptance, love, and self-worth•Boundaries and how to ruthlessly enforce them Stop putting others first and start treating yourself better. Who are you living your life for? Do you feel like you are exhausted by the time you can finally pay attention to your own needs? Do you finally wish that you could free yourself from self-imposed burdens and put yourself first? Learning how to say no and assert yourself is the most amazing tool that no one ever taught us. Start changing your life today.

Personal Evolution 4-Book Box Set: Likability, Charisma, Productivity, Critical Thinking, & Assertiveness

Personal Evolution 4-Book Box Set: Likability, Charisma, Productivity, Critical Thinking, & Assertiveness

4 bestselling books - 900 pages of actionable and practical material - at a huge discount. #1: The Science of Likability: 60 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction [2019 Edition]- Understand human psychology and the elements of great first impressions and deep friendships.- Learn how to be more likable, charming, conversationally quick, and desirable.#2: Take Rapid Action: Get Productive, Motivated, & Energized; Stop Overthinking & Procrastinating- Tactics to beat procrastination and achieve your goals more quickly and efficiently - even if you're super lazy.- The best psychological techniques for quick action and productivity.#3: The Art of Everyday Assertiveness: Speak Up. Set Boundaries. Say No. Take Back Control. Get What You Want.- How to say no to people, how to stand your ground, and how to finally ask for what you want.- How to set your personal and emotional boundaries, and avoid toxic people.#4: The Art of Clear Thinking: Mental Models for Better Reasoning, Judgment, Analysis, and Learning. Upgrade Your Intellectual Toolkit.- How to see reality and avoid common/advanced thinking errors.- Techniques to understand more deeply and never be fooled.Scroll up and click the BUY NOW Button.

Train Your Empathy

Train Your Empathy

This single skill can make or break your relationships. Finally learn how to be effective with people.There is an empathy drought in our world, but that doesn’t mean it has to affect you. Learn how to radiate compassion and kindness.Understand subtle indicators of empathy and how to utilize them to gain trust and acceptance.Train Your Empathy is an extreme deep dive into the topic of what makes people connect. It’s not small talk or even a sense of humor – only empathy makes people truly feel safe, heard, and yearning for more.If you have trouble connecting with others, keeping long-term friendships, or constantly have conflict, this book is for you. You will learn the ins and outs of how to listen, validate, and get to the root of any issue – the emotional impact. This is a true interpersonal superpower.Learn to read people’s emotions, desires, and intentions and reflect them back.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Prevent conflict before it starts and make people feel valued, loved, and heard. The different types of empathy and how to deploy each one How to become emotionally literate for yourself and others Understanding the bias and ego that you bring to any situation The art of taking other perspectives How a spark of curiosity will help your empathy levels The keys to empathetic listening, reflecting, and communication Key phrases to make people feel heard, happy, and validated Create or deepen emotional connection in record time.

The Science of Reading People

The Science of Reading People

The best of behavioral psychology and how to use it on a daily basis.People are not that complex - once you know how they function at their most basic levels of motivation. This book is how you become a veritable mind reader.Tons of science-backed methods of decoding people's behaviors and words.The Science of Reading People isn't a book that tells you about crossed arms, eye contact, and eyerolls. That type of information is so basic, it can be hidden. No, this book is about deep behavioral psychology, and how it affects all of our actions and behaviors.Is it possible to understand someone from observing them? Yes, if you know what you are looking at and what you are looking for.Learn the telltale signs of a person's emotions, even if they want to hide them.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.How to know what people want, even if they don't.- 10 factors that prevent us from perceiving someone, and how to prevent them- Actionable exercises for taking people's perspectives and stepping outside of your own head- Four personality types and how to categorize people in quick and easy ways- Understanding the four functions of behavior and how to spot them- Listening for specific word and linguistic choicesThe science of reading people has never been more usable in your everyday life.

The Power of E.Q.:

The Power of E.Q.:

Your success in life will depend on how good you are with people. Sorry, that's the harsh truth.But the good news is that this is a trainable skill - and this book is an amazing start.Make a smashing first impression and make people crave your presence.The Power of E.Q. is as practical as a book can be. You will get techniques to use immediately on the people around you, and you will suddenly realize how much you have been missing! You will gain a deep understanding of emotional intelligence and the small signs behind what people are thinking and feeling. Imagine how much more easily you could make friends or befriend business partners if you could analyze them better.Read and analyze people with such stunning accuracy that they will be shocked.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Find the shortcuts to connecting with people in record time. - conversational intelligence and how to empathize in 4 steps - how to step outside of your own perspective and read the emotions of others - cold reading and being an expert at finding "clues" about people - understanding emotions and how to label yourself and others - how high-quality questions will make you seem like a mind reader Gain a deeper understanding of human nature.

Official Workbook: Read People like a Book

Official Workbook: Read People like a Book

NOTE: This is the official workbook for Patrick King's book, Read People Like a Book. This does NOT include the original book, and this is the ONLY official version put out by the author.Speed read people, decipher body language, detect lies, and understand human nature.Is it possible to analyze people without them saying a word? Yes, it is. Learn how to become a “mind reader” and forge deep connections.How to get inside people’s heads without them knowing.Read People Like a Book isn’t a normal book on body language of facial expressions. Yes, it includes all of those things, as well as new techniques on how to truly detect lies in your everyday life, but this book is more about understanding human psychology and nature. We are who we are because of our experiences and pasts, and this guides our habits and behaviors more than anything else. Parts of this book read like the most interesting and applicable psychology textbook you’ve ever read. Take a look inside yourself and others!Understand the subtle signals that you are sending out and increase your emotional intelligence.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Learn the keys to influencing and persuading others.•What people’s limbs can tell us about their emotions.•Why lie detecting isn’t so reliable when ignoring context.•Diagnosing personality as a means to understanding motivation.•Deducing the most with the least amount of information.•Exactly the kinds of eye contact to use and avoidFind shortcuts to connect quickly and deeply with strangers.The art of reading and analyzing people is truly the art of understanding human nature. Consider it like a cheat code that will allow you to see through people’s actions and words.Decode people’s thoughts and intentions, and you can go in any direction you want with them.

The Science of Getting Started

The Science of Getting Started

Outsmart your lazy and undisciplined tendencies. Become a productivity machine and achieve your goals quickly. Procrastination is the monster that we are always running from. It lurks around every corner, and can completely sabotage your life. But you can learn to defeat it every time. A blueprint for getting into motion from a complete standstill. Understand and defeat your psychological blocks. The Science of Getting Started is a deep dive into our tendency to push things until the last minute possible. It uncovers the biological and evolutionary science behind procrastination, and how we can beat these instinctual drives to triumph in our career and personal life. A plethora of studies are analyzed and put into illuminating contexts.Best of all, it’s a book of scientific solutions boiled down to everyday usefulness. You’ll be able to apply insight from this book immediately to slay your procrastination monster and get ahead of the pack. Get started instantly; now; today. Stop saying “I’ll do it later...” Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and entrepreneur. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He has battled the procrastination monster his entire life and brings proven techniques to you. Discover discipline, willpower, and motivation that works for you. Defeat your inner sloth. Channel your inner beast. •A scientific and biological overview of your procrastination habit.•Warning signs to monitor your work ethic.•Psychological tactics to trigger your brain to productivity.•How to structure and schedule your life to safeguard against procrastination.•Simple yet effective tactics to get off your butt and into action.•How to beat analysis paralysis and other causes of mental freezing.

Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments

Learn To Think Using Thought Experiments

Use the mental tools that the world's greatest thinkers used to generate epiphanies, explore the world, and hone their reasoning. In traditional education, you're taught to recite and regurgitate. Going a step farther, you might learn some critical thinking skills. But what about applying them in the most audacious, fascinating, and inquisitive ways possible with thought experiments? Philosophical and exploratory thinking pushes your boundaries and opens new worlds. Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments is about how to analyze, perceive, and interact with information and situations - all in your mind and imagination. It poses a hypothetical and forces you to engage it and answer questions and reason through arguments you've never known. This book will confuse, frustrate, and ultimately improve your thinking prowess like nothing else, on account of being thrown into the mental deep end. Challenge yourself and you will grow. Improve critical thinking by applying it in innovative and novel ways. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Become more naturally curious, inquisitive, and Sherlock Holmes-like. - The curious case of two cats and what they teach us about uncertainty.- What choosing between 1 and 5 people says about you.- Why this entire world might just be a dream or simulation.- What a javelin has to do with infinite.- How Zeno's tortoise represents the point where reality and numbers diverge.- How Chinese logicians, beetles, fish, and monkeys demonstrate different angles of reality and perception. Learn to thrive in uncertain situations and contemplate more thoroughly and deeply.Thought experiments are a classic tool that everyone can use, and they enable us to explore more abstract situations and reason through them. Master thought experiments and you can master simply dealing with difficult, uncertain, impossible, or confusing questions and situations.

Hypnosis: The Secret Hypnotic Techniques And Language Patterns (Using Hypnosis to Treat Trauma and Stress)

Hypnosis: The Secret Hypnotic Techniques And Language Patterns (Using Hypnosis to Treat Trauma and Stress)

Having strong willpower keeps manipulators at bay. They know that if you’re firm then they’ll have a hard nut to crack in convincing you to follow their way. Don’t let your emotions take control of determining your willpower.In this book you’ll discover: • The principles of dark psychology applied to persuasion• The secret techniques used in dark psychology• The secret of deception and deceptive tactics in business and in relationship• How to use mind control to get someone to do whatever you want• How to carry out a real brainwash and to stop being manipulated• How to know when someone is using mind control against you• Understanding and influence human behavior• And much more!In this book you’ll learn everything you need to know to hypnotize anyone using a step-by-step process, from induction to deep trance, to speaking to the subconscious as well as ending the session and setting up goals.