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Communication Skills Training
You are missing out on so many relationships in your life. Make sure it never happens again!Communication is the bedrock of our relationships. But we often don’t know how to express ourselves, or truly hear others. Make sure that you are not letting amazing people pass you by.Increase your social and emotional awareness.Communication Skills Training is truly about arming you with the tools you need for effective expression, listening, and relationships. Communication is the primary contributor to the relationships we attract in our lives, and this book takes you through almost every aspect of successful connection.Imagine being able to walk into a room and make friends with strangers, avoid conflict, and have a charismatic presence. It’s not so tough, it just needs purposeful practice. This book will be your best field guide to knowing how to deal with people, their emotions, and your own emotions.Get ahead in your career – because communication skills gets promotions, not technical skills.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.The keys to preventing and dealing with conflict or other uncomfortable situations. - Identify your communication style, and why it might be holding you back - Exactly how much eye contact to use for emotional connection - One acronym to substantially improve your conversations - How to “hear” people’s emotions and make people trust you - Defusing conflict and tough situations - How to say no and assert yourself to anyone - An ancient Greek persuasion technique that works in any situation Read people like a book – their emotions, feelings, and thoughts!
Become A Human Behavior Scientist
Become a student and scientist of body language, mannerisms, and small tells. Become a “mind reader.” The art of reading people is much more of a science! You too can learn this skill, which will allow you to know what people are thinking without them saying a word, and even predict their behavioral patterns. Not a generic book on looking at facial expressions or trying to see if someone is lying. Become A Human Behavior Scientist isn’t about surface things. It’s about all the habits, tics, and ways of thinking that can show you someone’s intentions, personality, background, and goals. People are giving out signs all the time, you just have to know what to look for!This book is a mixture of behavioral psychology, with superior observational skills honed from years of experience. Everything is rooted in science, rest assured. Discover the true meaning of emotional and social intelligence – and what you’ve been missing. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Find the shortcuts to read and predict a stranger’s behavior. How to read someone’s entire emotional spectrum Predicting people’s most common desires and motivations What does having a cat or dog say about someone? What does having a clean or messy room say about someone? Observations and reverse storytelling Asking questions without actually asking The art of reading and analyzing people is truly the art of understanding human nature. Consider it a cheat code that will allow you to see through people’s actions and words.
Massive Charisma
Develop your own personal gravity with concrete skills to stand out, be noticed, and captivate people.If you (1) walk into a room and feel invisible, or (2) want to ensure you make a powerful personal impact – NEWSFLASH: you need better advice than “fake it ‘til you make it” or “just be yourself.”Confidently approach and excel in any social setting.MASSIVE CHARISMA is a book that just might fundamentally change how you interact with others. Never before have you looked behind the curtain of so-called charismatic people and the subtle ways they act and think differently. You get the “how to” along with the “why” and a multitude of illustrative examples.We are always told that our interpersonal skills are the key to what we want in life, and it’s true. Let the actionable tips, questions, approaches, and replicable techniques in this book be your guide to growing your sense of personal magnetism and charm.Advice from an internationally-known, professional charisma coach.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and teaches charisma and social skills for a living. He’s also a late bloomer and former social recluse – he made the transformation, knows exactly what it takes, and can relate to you every step of the way – advice from someone who simply gets it.He has been featured in: GQ Magazine, Tedx, Forbes, Men’s Fitness, and the Huffington Post.The highly focused advice will teach you what matters in an interaction, from beginning to end, subtle to obvious, small to big.•How to wield your attention and focus for maximum impact.•How choosing and being a role model help your charisma quotient.•The subconscious body language signals that matter.•How to exude true empathy and warmth.Solve: small talk, interviews, networking events, and strangers.•How to demonstrate your value, confidence, and powerful presence.•How to tailor your communication and speak to individuals.•How to listen and validate effectively.•The top charisma mistakes people unknowingly commit.Charisma is the one skill that opens all the doors you want in life, and the benefits are endless.
How to Speed Read People
The art of reading people is much more of a science! You too can learn this skill, which will allow you to know what people are thinking without them saying a word, and even predict their behavioral patterns.Not a generic book on looking at facial expressions or trying to see if someone is lying.HOW TO SPEED READ PEOPLE isn’t about surface things. It’s about all the habits, tics, and ways of thinking that can show you someone’s intentions, personality, background, and goals. People are giving out signs all the time, you just have to know what to look for!This book is a mixture of behavioral psychology, with superior observational skills honed from years of experience. Everything is rooted in science, rest assured.Discover the true meaning of emotional and social intelligence – and what you’ve been missing.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Find the shortcuts to read and predict a stranger’s behavior. How to read someone’s entire emotional spectrum Predicting people’s most common desires and motivations How someone's childhood context defines all of their adult behaviors Pain, pleasure, and how to predict exactly how someone will act and react Observations and reverse storytelling Subtext, tells, tics, and the small things that make you emotionally intelligent
I Feel Heard
The most underrated relationship skill that will transform every single interaction."I feel heard" - what a magical sentence to hear from someone. It represents so many positive emotions. This is something we can create on demand. Let's learn how.Instantly understand what people want to hear and what they care about.This book is about understanding healthy relationships and what they are based on. Communication is tough, and we all have unhelpful tendencies. You'll read about what you're doing, identify it, and re-direct your efforts into building bridges rather than walls.You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are. Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.Conflicts won't arise if people simply feel heard and validated.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful interactions.Raise the standard for your relationships.Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.•Normalizing a non-judgmental perspective•The 6 levels of validation and why you cannot skip a single step•How couples therapists run their sessions, and how you can steal their blueprint•Active listening and reflecting techniques•Toxic positivity and the avoidance of actual validation•Conflict, disagreement, and listening to hear and understand•Active constructive responses and how they get people to open up instantly
Introvert Survival Tactics
Feel like you’re trying doing a bad impression of an extrovert, or you’re a “party pooper” because you turn down invites? If you have (1) felt massive relief at cancelled plans, (2)had mild to huge annoyance in huge gatherings of strangers, and (3) want to figure out how to socialize better and more effectively without social fatigue, this book is for you – written by someone exactly like you. Introvert Survival Tactics is going to shed light on exactly how you function, and how to use your tendencies to your advantage. Social survival tactics for your most demanding social obligations. Introvert Survival Tactics takes you on a tour of self-discovery, and allows you to understand your exact wiring and why you dread things that other people seem to look forward to the most. You’ll be armed with specific and actionable survival and party tactics to get the most out of your social energy and make an impact every time. Make the best impression even when you’re socially exhausted (especially if you’ve been told you look “unapproachable”). Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. More importantly, he’s also a massive introvert and struggled with what society told him to be for years, until he discovered how to make his introversion an advantage in his life. In this book, he will teach you how to feel completely at ease with yourself, while being the social powerhouse you want to be.Noted dating coach for introverts Sarah Jones (featured in Cosmo, Forbes, and more) lends her voice in a guest chapter on Introverted Dating Tactics. Exactly where to go, how to engage, and what to say for deeper connections. •Understanding your biology.•How to survive and thrive in any raging party.•Charging your social battery strategically.•The exact environments you thrive in and strengths you possess. Find your solitude in our loud world. •Escape any obligation or interaction gracefully.•How to implement “introvert life design.”•Interpersonal dynamics with friends, co-workers, and lovers. Discover how to thrive and get out of your shell.
Small Talk that Doesn’t Suck
No one likes 'networking', and the process of meeting new people can sometimes be like pulling teeth.How are you, how many siblings do you have, did you have a commute, how long have you lived here, where did you go to university...?! YIKES.Let's change small talk into real talk that leads to rapport and deeper friendships.SMALL TALK THAT DOESN'T SUCK - the title tells you all you need to know. How to go from a stranger to a deeper connection extremely quickly, while avoiding most of the awkwardness and useless topics that are inherent.You'll understand what to say, how to say it, and when to say it. Extremely specific guidelines and prompts in this book to keep people engaged and opening up in any conversation.What to say and when to say to be likable, connect, and make a memorable impression.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He suffered for years as a shy introvert and managed to boil human interaction down to a science - first for himself, and now for you.NO MORE: interview mode, awkward silence, or struggling to hold people’s attention.- Reading and working with different types of conversational energy and flow- Adding salt and acid to an interaction - what and how?!- Why and when you should mention your flaws, and how they are like conversational bait- What is "medium" talk and how to skip directly to it- Six guidelines to the art of asking amazing questions- Storytelling 101- How to use interruptions to your advantage?!Become someone who is magnetic and who can make new friends in any situation.Simple conversation is the gatekeeper to friendships, your dream career, romance, and overall happiness. The ability to connect with anyone is an underrated superpower. People will be more drawn to you without even knowing why, and never again people will people be bored talking to you. You’ll never run out of things to say when you master these conversation tactics.
The Science of Social Intelligence: 45 Methods to Captivate People, Make a Powerful Impression, and Subconsciously Trigger Social Status and Value
Scientifically-proven methods to create connection with anyone you meet. This is your blueprint for social success. Humans are spectacularly predictable. Through decades of research, scientists have shown consistent patterns in human behavior and thought that can lead us to very predictable outcomes. In other words, there are genuine ways to forge better relationships that take advantage of human psychology and behavioral patterns. And now, you are going to learn some major ones. Learn the elements of magnetic presence and charisma. Create unconscious social value and status. In The Science of Social Intelligence, you'll have over 40 studies, new and old, broken down in a way that answers the question, “How can I use this information to improve my everyday social life?” You can rely on real findings from the fields of psychology, cognitive science, neuroscience, and behavioral economics, rather than one person’s anecdotal advice. Learn why conventional socializing advice is flat-out wrong or incomplete. This book is an in-depth look at the concept of being socially intelligent, maximizing the social opportunities you are given, and leveraging your unique strengths to have the relationships you want. In a time where most advice takes the form of “make more eye contact” and “smile more,” this book stands out.This book pairs human behavioral data and findings with the insight and emotional intelligence of Patrick King, sought-after social skills coach and internationally bestselling author. The result is half textbook, half field guide for whatever your social goals may be.
Stop People Pleasing
Break your crippling addiction to approval and learn to be less “nice”. Do you keep your mouth shut for fear of falling out of people’s graces? Feel that you need to please and serve to stay in your social circles? You have the need to please, and all the associated beliefs. Stop bitterness, resentment, and anxiety from always saying yes. Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the book emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others. This book was written by a recovering people-pleaser, so you can be sure that there is a real understanding of your struggles. Reprogram your beliefs and learn to accept yourself. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Find your voice, stand up for yourself, and put yourself first. •The psychological and often traumatic origins of people-pleasing tendencies.•The harmful beliefs you subconsciously possess and how to alter them.•How to learn new, empowering habits. Learn the deep origins of your need to please, and how to set healthy boundaries. •How to set boundaries, and avoid porous ones.•A plethora of strategies to say no and make your thoughts known.•Understand your guilt and get better with confrontation.
Principles of Likability
Small changes for big results in your social life, presence, and relationships. Learn how to be captivating, memorable, and magnetic. Likability is one of the most important traits you’ll ever learn. It’s more important than your intelligence, looks, status, wealth, prestige, or education. Likability is the true currency of life. Do you seem to fade from people’s memory as soon as the conversation ends? Banish those feelings of rejection and dejection. Principles of Likability investigates the aspect of human nature that affects us the most - what makes us drawn to someone without our even realizing it? This is what we strive for everyday, and it can make or break our moods. Likability - what is it and how can we achieve it consistently? Use the principles laid out in this book and you’ll wonder no more. Make a powerful first impression and build a thriving social circle. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He has taught the art of becoming likable for years and only writes about real tactics that have been proven to work. Utilize the subconscious causes of likability and charm. •Simple everyday decisions to be more likable.•Why conventional advice about focusing on others is flawed.•How to actually listen - a unique and different approach.•What value has to do with your likability and charm. Become pursued and sought out instead of ignored and forgotten. •Why being shallow isn’t always bad, and is actually valuable.•What abrasiveness is and why it’s more powerful than likability.•How to become worthy of being liked as second nature. Likability has the power to take you anywhere you want in life.
The Introvert Survival Guide
Feel like you’re trying doing a bad impression of an extrovert, or you’re a “party pooper” because you turn down invites? If you have (1) felt massive relief at cancelled plans, (2)had mild to huge annoyance in huge gatherings of strangers, and (3) want to figure out how to socialize better and more effectively without social fatigue, this book is for you – written by someone exactly like you. The Introvert Survival Guide is going to shed light on exactly how you function, and how to use your tendencies to your advantage. Social survival tactics for your most demanding social obligations. The Introvert Survival Guide takes you on a tour of self-discovery, and allows you to understand your exact wiring and why you dread things that other people seem to look forward to the most. You’ll be armed with specific and actionable survival and party tactics to get the most out of your social energy and make an impact every time.Make the best impression even when you’re socially exhausted (especially if you’ve been told you look “unapproachable”). Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. More importantly, he’s also a massive introvert and struggled with what society told him to be for years, until he discovered how to make his introversion an advantage in his life. In this book, he will teach you how to feel completely at ease with yourself, while being the social powerhouse you want to be. Exactly where to go, how to engage, and what to say for deeper connections. •Understanding your biology.•How to survive and thrive in any raging party.•Charging your social battery strategically.•The exact environments you thrive in and strengths you possess. Find your solitude in our loud world. •Escape any obligation or interaction gracefully.•How to implement “introvert life design.”•Interpersonal dynamics with friends, co-workers, and lovers.
How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate
Stop cringing at small talk. Become more charismatic. Turn surface interactions into deep connections. Hi, what’s your name, what do you do, what are your hobbies, and where do you come from? We can do so much better than that. It’s time to take your interpersonal relationships into your own hands and learn how to connect with anyone. Not a generic book of one-liners or ice-breakers. Proven principles for social success and likability. This book is not just common sense advice you might find on the Internet. This is where you learn to socialize from the ground up. This is where you will start to get compliments on your social skills and level of charisma.The knowledge in this book can change every aspect of your life; romantically, professionally, and of course socially. The most likable people in the world sail through life quite smoothly - this can be you as well. How to confidently walk into a room full of strangers, and walk out with a bunch of new friends. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. A comprehensive overview of how to become supremely likable. •The top conversational landmines you are probably stepping on.•How to do most of the work in a conversation before it even begins.•How to go deep from the get-go instead of staying in small talk.•How to make your life a series of engaging, funny stories.•Being more spontaneous and witty on command.•Channeling charisma like you never have before.