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Stop People Pleasing
Break your crippling addiction to approval and learn to be less “nice”. Do you keep your mouth shut for fear of falling out of people’s graces? Feel that you need to please and serve to stay in your social circles? You have the need to please, and all the associated beliefs. Stop bitterness, resentment, and anxiety from always saying yes. Stop People Pleasing is a frank look at people-pleasing tendencies - where they come from, how they manifest, and exactly what to do about them. Most importantly, the book emphasizes real, actionable tactics to change your relationship with yourself and others. This book was written by a recovering people-pleaser, so you can be sure that there is a real understanding of your struggles. Reprogram your beliefs and learn to accept yourself. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. Find your voice, stand up for yourself, and put yourself first. •The psychological and often traumatic origins of people-pleasing tendencies.•The harmful beliefs you subconsciously possess and how to alter them.•How to learn new, empowering habits. Learn the deep origins of your need to please, and how to set healthy boundaries. •How to set boundaries, and avoid porous ones.•A plethora of strategies to say no and make your thoughts known.•Understand your guilt and get better with confrontation.
Principles of Likability
Small changes for big results in your social life, presence, and relationships. Learn how to be captivating, memorable, and magnetic. Likability is one of the most important traits you’ll ever learn. It’s more important than your intelligence, looks, status, wealth, prestige, or education. Likability is the true currency of life. Do you seem to fade from people’s memory as soon as the conversation ends? Banish those feelings of rejection and dejection. Principles of Likability investigates the aspect of human nature that affects us the most - what makes us drawn to someone without our even realizing it? This is what we strive for everyday, and it can make or break our moods. Likability - what is it and how can we achieve it consistently? Use the principles laid out in this book and you’ll wonder no more. Make a powerful first impression and build a thriving social circle. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He has taught the art of becoming likable for years and only writes about real tactics that have been proven to work. Utilize the subconscious causes of likability and charm. •Simple everyday decisions to be more likable.•Why conventional advice about focusing on others is flawed.•How to actually listen - a unique and different approach.•What value has to do with your likability and charm. Become pursued and sought out instead of ignored and forgotten. •Why being shallow isn’t always bad, and is actually valuable.•What abrasiveness is and why it’s more powerful than likability.•How to become worthy of being liked as second nature. Likability has the power to take you anywhere you want in life.
How to Engage, Connect, & Captivate
Stop cringing at small talk. Become more charismatic. Turn surface interactions into deep connections. Hi, what’s your name, what do you do, what are your hobbies, and where do you come from? We can do so much better than that. It’s time to take your interpersonal relationships into your own hands and learn how to connect with anyone. Not a generic book of one-liners or ice-breakers. Proven principles for social success and likability. This book is not just common sense advice you might find on the Internet. This is where you learn to socialize from the ground up. This is where you will start to get compliments on your social skills and level of charisma.The knowledge in this book can change every aspect of your life; romantically, professionally, and of course socially. The most likable people in the world sail through life quite smoothly - this can be you as well. How to confidently walk into a room full of strangers, and walk out with a bunch of new friends. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. A comprehensive overview of how to become supremely likable. •The top conversational landmines you are probably stepping on.•How to do most of the work in a conversation before it even begins.•How to go deep from the get-go instead of staying in small talk.•How to make your life a series of engaging, funny stories.•Being more spontaneous and witty on command.•Channeling charisma like you never have before.
Fearless Social Confidence
Change the inner voice that tells you ”they’ll think you’re dumb”, or ”I’m not good enough”. Stop letting fear run your life. Fear of: judgment, rejection, laughter, awkward silence, feeling silly, saying the wrong thing, or making a bad impression. Is this always what you’re fixated on? Control your thoughts, be respected and heard, and stop caring what others think. Fearless Social Confidence gives you more than victory over shyness – it gives you social invincibility and forever eliminates the feeling that you’re just not good enough.This is a unique book that takes a deeper look into social confidence: what causes it, what drains it, and most importantly – what you can do about it. It recognizes how confidence is built, and takes you step by step through the various mindset changes and action items. You'll walk away knowing exactly what to do to help yourself. Learn to feel comfortable in any situation and ignore self-consciousness. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He is also a former social recluse who has gotten from point A to point B, and intimately understands the struggle you are facing.Clinical psychologist and the US's leading social confidence authority Dr. Aziz Gazipura lends his thoughts in an insightful chapter on transformation. Speak and live freely without constant negative thoughts. •How to banish negative self-talk and other toxic habits.•The art of self-acceptance and correcting skewed thoughts.•A detailed plan on exactly what to do and how to start your change.•Core techniques used in therapy and psychology to overcome fear.•Understand the relationship between confidence, action, and thoughts. Take your shields down and allow people to see the real you.
The Social Skills Toolkit
Bestselling author Patrick King brings you four of his acclaimed books in one volume - to enhance your relationships, revitalize your social life, relate to people better, and bring more overall joy to your life.Patrick King has thousands of 5-star reviews, many from mental health professionals and psychologists, praising his insight, approach, and actionable advice. Start your journey now and click BUY NOW.Book 1: The Science of Reading People: How to Understand What People Are Really Saying and Why- 10 factors that prevent us from perceiving someone, and how to prevent them- Actionable exercises for taking people's perspectives and stepping outside of your own head- Four personality types and how to categorize people in quick and easy ways- Understanding the four functions of behavior and how to spot them- Listening for specific word and linguistic choicesBook 2: How to Speak Effectively: Influence, Engage, & Charm-A ladder of inference to use in any social interaction-Five types of communication tones and why you're using the wrong one-How to use your words like an artist with paint-Asking the right questions and methods for better listening-So-called trash words and how to eliminate them from your vocabulary-Getting through tough conversations with ease and graceBook 3: MASSIVE CHARISMA: Small Talk, Charm, Likability, and How to Succeed With People•How to demonstrate your value, confidence, and powerful presence.•How to tailor your communication and speak to individuals.•How to listen and validate effectively.•The top charisma mistakes people unknowingly commit.Book 4: Make Friends Easily: How to Charm and Connect in Record Time- Understand a 5-part friendship formula that you must use- Master "reciprocal curiosity" to unlock people- How to help people "think out loud"- A question framework that can work in any situation- The rule of 3 in conversations
The Science of Likability
100% scientifically-proven ways to make friends quickly, turn enemies into friends, gain trust, and be flat-out likable. Utilize the most interesting, shocking, and counterintuitive findings in psychological science to simply make people want to be around you.The Science of Likability takes over 60 seminal scientific and psychological studies and breaks them down into real, usable guidelines and tips to create the presence you have always wanted. Every piece of advice in this book to increase your social standing and likability factor is 100% backed by in-depth, peer-reviewed research, and it goes far beyond simple common sense and intuition. Learn how to subconsciously make yourself likable, trustworthy, and intelligent. You can get a new haircut and wardrobe, and you even learn knock-knock jokes. But likability is something more. It's subconscious, and it's about the small signs that signal our brains to let their guards down, seek others out, and embrace them. We know what to do if we want to make someone hate us - we now also know what to do to become someone's favorite person. Understand what makes people tick, and strategically give it to them. - How to take advantage of people's memories for your sense of charm.- The power of equity in relationships and friendships.- A literal formula for "friendship chemistry."- The real way to use eye contact to build trust.- Why tripping and being vulnerable in front of people is positive.- Universal definitions of charisma, wit, and humor - seriously. Universal.
Mendengarkan dengan Hati
Saat ini, seni mendengarkan secara mendalam adalah suatu kekuatan super. Jika dapat membuat seseorang merasa didengarkan, Anda tidak akan menemui kesulitan untuk meraih hatinya. Dan hal itu tidak sesulit dan serumit yang Anda bayangkan.Mendengarkan dengan Hati adalah buku tentang hubungan. Suatu hubungan harus bersifat memberi dan menerima—apakah Anda menerima lebih dari yang Anda berikan? Apakah Anda membuat orang merasa nyaman bersikap terbuka kepada Anda? Apakah Anda mendengarkan dengan baik, atau tanpa Anda sadari Anda adalah orang yang narsis dalam suatu hubungan? Inilah waktunya mempelajari keterampilan yang tidak hanya membantu orang saat dibutuhkan, tetapi juga menciptakan persahabatan baru dengan siapa saja—karena, siapa yang tidak suka didengarkan?Patrick King adalah penulis buku laris internasional dan pelatih keterampilan sosial. Tulisannya mengambil berbagai sumber, mulai dari penelitian ilmiah, pengalaman akademis, sampai pengalaman nyata.
Limitless
Is your fear of failure making life pass you by? Stuck in quicksand, longing for more, and wasting your potential? Do what ifs haunt you at night? Is something missing from your life... and are you your own worst enemy? You can create the life you want. Limitless teaches you every step, including a 6-point action plan, to success you’ve been too scared to reach for. This is a book of ACTION and doesn’t just tell you to fake it ‘til you make it or think big. Life rewards the those who take matters into THEIR OWN HANDS, and this book is where to start. Limitless is full of real-life anecdotes and examples, proven techniques of high-performers that are household names, and phenomena backed up countless research studies, all of which will arm you with a mindset primed for success and powerful, concrete techniques. As a social success coach, I uniquely understand what drives success – starting with my own career leap from the legal field into creating the life I wanted. I've lived your path, I know exactly what's holding you back, and I can help. Noted bestselling author Derek Doepker and peak performance coach lends his thoughts in an insightful foreword.Find out how to let go of your fears and take flight towards success, period. How will you learn to conquer your goals? •Learn the simple power of altering your reality.•Why your strengths are much more fulfilling than passions.•What a former world-record mile runner has to do with success.•Success boiled down to three easy elements. And further ways to maximize your potential? •The right way to visualize and “think big.”•How to uniquely position decisions for short and long-term success.•How to defeat the perfectionism devil.•The surprising value of going public with your goals.
Nlp: Infallible Techniques for Personal Development!(Little-known Strategies to Access Your Mind and Truly Program Yourself Just Like a Computer)
In the reality I was everybody’s puppet. My colleague played with me, my wife grilled me like a pro. Even my children coax me as they wanted.One day I decided It was enough. So I started to invest in myself with the only goal to improve my life. So, I studied the main self-help and NLP books. And I understood the problem was me and my lack of awareness.This book gives a comprehensive guide on the following:.What Is Neuro-linguistic Programming?.How NLP works.NLP skills in seduction.NLP skills in sales.NLP techniques in manipulation.How to avoid been manipulated.How to Build Successful Relationships.How to Use NLP for Greatness.Change Your Thoughts.Using NLP to avoid manipulation.Manipulating the Mind Through NLP.Deletion.NLP in business.Superior Modeling: How to Program the Brain for Success.Do It, and then Do It Again... AND MORE!!!NLP explores the relationships between how we think (neuro), how we communicate (linguistic) and our patterns of behaviour and emotions (programmes). The idea is that, by studying NLP people can adopt more successful ways of thinking, communicating, feeling and behaving.
Mental Toughness: Exercise your brain and gain self esteem, manage negative thoughts (cure procrastination, laziness mindset & build mental toughness without worrying)
Finally, this book will get you in on a few physical and mental sporting activities that you may contain into your every day recurring to make certain which you are always pushing yourself, to boom the power of your mind. Get started with the aid of purchasing this e-book today!Inside, you may find:· the name of the game to pushing yourself beyond your limits· Develop The Self-Discipline To Succeed And The Strongest Mindset For Life· The exceptional mental longevity training which you should research from heroes who've executed the first-rate achievement of their fields· The most explicit definition of mental toughness and evidence of the way it works· The maximum comprehensive list of do’s and don’ts of the mentally difficult· A clear description of some of the best bodily and mental sporting events to bolster your thoughts· the name of the game to acquiring and practicing intellectual toughness for yourself· The maximum charming depiction of the link among the frame and the mind· The thriller in the direction of maintaining a nice mindset in lifestylesEach chapter will help you understand how your brain works and the methods you can use to turn negative thought patterns into positive ones. You will learn how to stop sabotaging yourself and how to stop letting other people control you.
Nlp: The Best Methods, Tricks, and Steps for Successful Neuro-linguistic Programming (Complete Nlp Training to Build Mental Resources and Change Your Habits)
Enough with trying out new routines that never seem to stick. Get down to the deepest level of your programming and create lasting change from the inside out with these simple but extremely powerful tools. Take control of your life today!….You Will Learn:.What NLP is.What are hypnotic language patterns.Higher level of thinking.Uses of NLP in your personal, professional, and lives,.Strategies to free your skills and how to better manage your feelings instead of being dominated by them.How to release your skills in difficult situations.Effective communication skills...and much more.What if you knew the tactics and techniques that allowed you to penetrate through your customer’s conscious faculty and reach them on a deep and influential level? What if you knew exactly how to produce the emotional reaction that would cause them to buy? What if you knew how to read your customer’s body language so well that you could lead them to the decision you wanted, with ease?
Mental Toughness: How to Develop Mental Toughness & An Unbreakable Mindset (Mastery Emotional Intelligence and Soft Skills)
In truth, mental toughness is often the defining characteristic in the life of truly great people and it could be the difference between success or failure in any area of life. This could be the the very attribute that could push over the top to make a giant breakthrough in your life. So what are you waiting for? The time is now to start developing more mental toughness! Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn... · What is Mental Toughness· Why You Need Mental Toughness· How to Engage In Self-Development· Mental Exercises to Practice· How to Physically Train Yourself· How to Pay Attention to Your Habits· How to Break Your Limits· And Much, Much More!Mental toughness: It’s one of the assets that leaders try to instill in soldiers and athletes and doctors. It’s crucial if you want to achieve a huge, difficult goal. Call it guts, backbone, fortitude, perseverance, or tenacity. It’s what helps you survive a disaster or get through the day-to-day challenges and setbacks of life—without giving up on your dreams.