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If You Love Me: Part 2 of 3: True love. True terror. True story.

If You Love Me: Part 2 of 3: True love. True terror. True story.

'You said I was the perfect boyfriend. If you can prove you really love me, perhaps I can be that way again.' This is the chilling true story of a woman trapped in a devastating relationship as she tries to prove her love – over and over again. Within days of spending their first evening together, Alice and Joe were talking about getting married and spending the rest of their lives with each other. Everything about Joe seemed perfect, and Alice was the happiest she’d ever been. Then one day Joe saw a message on her phone from an old love, and that changed everything. He ignored Alice’s explanations and desperate pleas. And soon the violence and abuse began. As she attempted to prove to Joe that he really was her world, Alice gave up everything that mattered to her, including her family, her friends and her job. But still it wasn’t enough. Then the ‘challenges’ started, and finally Alice dared to hope that this time, maybe this time, Joe might just believe she loved him ...

The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition

The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition

In this fully expanded and updated third edition of the bestselling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it. You'll get more of the answers you need to recognize abuse when it happens, respond to abusers safely and appropriately, and most important, lead a happier, healthier life.In two all-new chapters, Evans reveals the Outside Stresses driving the rise in verbal abuse - and shows you how you can mitigate the devastating effects on your relationships. She also outlines the Levels of Abuse that characterize this kind of behavior - from subtle, insidious put-downs that can erode your self-esteem to full-out tantrums of name-calling, screaming, and threatening that can escalate into physical abuse.Drawing from hundreds of real situations suffered by real people just like you, Evans offers strategies, sample scripts, and action plans designed to help you deal with the abuse - and the abuser.This timely new edition of The Verbally Abusive Relationship puts you on the road to recognizing and responding to verbal abuse, one crucial step at a time!

Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away

Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away

What to do when you feel like giving upWhen you said, “I do,” you entered marriage with high hopes, dreaming it would be supremely happy. You never intended it to be miserable.Millions of couples are struggling in desperate marriages. But the story doesn’t have to end there. Dr. Gary Chapman writes, “I believe that in every troubled marriage, one or both partners can take positive steps that have the potential for changing the emotional climate in their marriage.”Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away, the revised and updated edition of the award-winning Desparate Marriages, teaches you how to:Recognize and reject the myths that hold you captiveBetter understand your spouse’s behaviorTake responsibility for your own thoughts, feelings, and actionsMake choices that can have a lasting, positive impact on you and your spouseAn experienced marriage and family counselor, Gary Chapman speaks to those whose spouse is any of the following:IrresponsibleA workaholicControllingUncommunicativeVerbally abusivePhysically abusiveSexually abusiveUnfaithfulAddicted to alcohol or drugsDepressedMarriage has the same potential to be miserable as it does to be blissful. Read Loving Your Spouse When You Feel Like Walking Away to learn how you can turn things around.

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?

Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?

Lundy Bancroft expands on his bestseller Why Does He Do That? in this daily guide that empowers women who are suffering in abusive relationships. Even if you’ve read Why Does He Do That?, it may be hard to see the truth of what is happening to you. You may feel overwhelmed by confusion, loss, and fear, and find yourself looking away from the truth and falling back into traumatic patterns. What you need is something that is there for you every day—to help you make a long series of little changes that will ultimately add up to a big one. Like a constant friend, this collection of meditations is a source of strength and reassurance designed to speak to women like you, women in relationships with angry and controlling men. It is a tool you can use to learn how to value and respect yourself—even when your partner makes it very clear that he does not. With seven themes designed to encourage and inspire, Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That? will help you digest what is happening one day at a time, so that you can gain clarity, safety, and freedom.You will see the truth in your destructive relationship.You and your children will survive.And—with these encouragements—even tomorrow will be a better day than today.

When Love Hurts

When Love Hurts

“Every woman who is struggling to understand the mistreatment she is experiencing in her relationship should begin by reading [this] wonderful book.”—Lundy Bancroft, author of Why Does He Do That?   What do you do when the one you love hurts you?   Have you been searching for answers to difficult questions about your relationship? Do you feel confused about why your partner seems loving one moment and angry the next? Summoning the courage to ask these challenging questions can seem daunting. You know something is wrong in your relationship, but you are not sure what. If you are beginning to wonder if you are experiencing abuse, this book can offer you support, information, and, most of all, hope as you look for answers.   Written by two women with a wealth of experience supporting victims of abuse, When Love Hurts introduces exercises and resources to help you make sense of your relationship, addressing all forms of abuse, including verbal, emotional, financial, sexual, and physical.   This practical guidebook is a supportive and nonjudgmental friend to those who don’t know where to turn and is filled with stories from women who have been in the same position. By drawing on your own wisdom and that of the many others who have shared your experience, When Love Hurts can help you find the answers you have been looking for.

Is He Cheating On Me?

Is He Cheating On Me?

Sometimes a woman just knows that something is wrong in her relationship. Something has changed and you suspect infidelity, but you're not sure if your suspicions are valid or the result of paranoia. The statistics about cheating show that you’re not so crazy to be concerned. The fact is, you either know someone who cheated, have heard about someone who got cheated on, have been cheated on, or have been a cheater yourself. The likelihood of being a victim of cheating is not 100%, but it’s high enough that you should be prepared with enough information about the tell-tale signs of a cheating partner in order to protect your greatest investment: Yourself. No one wants to waste their precious time and emotions on the wrong person. Here are over 160 common signs your guy might be cheating on you. 

Trauma and Recovery

Trauma and Recovery

In this groundbreaking book, a leading clinical psychiatrist redefines how we think about and treat victims of trauma. A "stunning achievement" that remains a "classic for our generation." (Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., author of The Body Keeps the Score).Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war. Hailed by the New York Times as "one of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud," Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand how we heal and are healed.

Black Panther and Sweet 16, Volume 8

Black Panther and Sweet 16, Volume 8

Taiga is a strong-willed sixteen-year-old keeping the super-dangerous beast-boy Anri as a pet. While she and Kurogane, the next CEO of a major cosmetics company and Anri’s childhood friend, are on a date, he proposes to her, and the two are engaged. The wedding is set for the summer of next year. Meanwhile, Anri’s father, the current head of the Iseya family, calls Anri and tells him that if he can’t get Taiga to look his way before the wedding, he’ll be sent overseas. Now that he has a time limit, Anri demands a new kind of “feeding time”?!

Love Massage: Melting Beauty Treatment 5

Love Massage: Melting Beauty Treatment 5

Volume 5 of the massively successful “Love Massage -Melting Beauty Treatment-” series is here! Toudou and Shiho’s relationship continues to go smoothly. From while stretching, to while in the shower…and so on, the two once again deepen their love through a variety of massages. However, interested in Shiho(?!), the younger masseur, Suda-kun, makes his return! What will Shiho make of Toudou’s different massages?! This is one sweet and exhilarating volume!

Black Panther and Sweet 16, Volume 11

Black Panther and Sweet 16, Volume 11

Final volume! The love triangle heats up and up! After taking care of his family problems and reconciling with his father, Anri leaves Taiga's side to go to America. Back in Japan, Taiga prepares for her wedding with Kurogane … Then this turbulent romance finally reaches its fateful moment … ?! Don’t miss the shocking final volume!

Love Massage: Melting Beauty Treatment 6

Love Massage: Melting Beauty Treatment 6

What will happen to Shiho when Suda-kun approaches her with a surprise massage?? Not to mention Toudou’s shocking confession to Shiho…!! Will that mean that they'll be separated…? How does Shiho respond?! This volume is extremely luxurious with a tinge of pain!

Love Massage

Love Massage

Volume 3 of the massively successful “Love Massage -Melting Beauty Treatment-” series is here! As Shiho and Toudou have their first date and visit each other’s homes, the two steadily deepen their relationship. With the younger masseur, Suda, becoming increasingly intimate with Shiho, will the two finally take the next step...?! This volume includes an exclusive series of special manga! This is the salacious story of how an office worker who is single and a handsome masseur fall in love!