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Relentless Focus
Do you want to save hours a day and do more in less time? Feel productive instead of stressed, defeated, and overwhelmed? If (1) you wonder where your time goes, (2) you can’t motivate or organize yourself, and (3) you struggle to buckle down and concentrate when it really matters, - newsflash, your to-do list is not cutting it anymore. You need to develop Relentless Focus and all that comes with it. Relentless Focus teaches the most important of skills – the ability to get stuff done. Without it? The difference between the life you want versus settling for “good enough.” 27+ ways to utilize every last waking minute to its fullest potential. Self-motivation is notoriously difficult, so this book contains systems, hacks, tips, psychological phenomenon, and external motivators to make success and productivity inevitable. Exact instructions to implement in your life today. Each tactic for focus and productivity is the product of years of practice and experimentation – tactics which have allowed me to create a successful business and sell well over 150,000 books. What about Relentless Focus will you learn? •Why to manage your energy as opposed to your time.•The most productive morning routine you’ve ever seen.•How to batch tasks for optimum efficiency.•How to safeguard and free up your time. Other ways to maximize your day: •The best ways to upgrade your obsolete to-do list.•How to live by your daily calendar.•Planning distraction blackouts and competing with yourself.•How to re-imagine your daily priorities.•The best ways to deal with any distraction.
Make Friends Easily
Making new friends doesn't have to be a chore. Learn how to do it quickly, efficiently, and effectively.Networking events? Big group dinners? Karaoke parties? Please, no.Get past boring small talk and deeply connect with others.Make Friends Easily - it's a simple task, isn't it? But why is it so hard in our modern age? There are so many distractions, so why should people pay attention to you? That's your challenge and task, and this book provides the answer. You'll learn how to become a presence that people crave, how to get past shallow conversation, and how to make sure that your connections are long and lasting.It's simple, but not easy. So pick up this book to make it easier.Understand the unconscious signs that everyone is looking for in new friends.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He suffered for years as a shy introvert and managed to boil human interaction down to a science - first for himself, and now for you.Become the most magnetic and welcoming person in the room.- Understand a 5-part friendship formula that you must use- Master "reciprocal curiosity" to unlock people- How to help people "think out loud"- A question framework that can work in any situation- The rule of 3 in conversationsThe quality of your life cannot rise above the quality of your relationships.
Social Equations
How to connect with anyone - in a systematic and structured way. A true set of instructions for any social interaction.Sometimes our minds are blank and we run out of things to say. That's normal. This book seeks to simplify that moment with simple formulas and equations to keep you going, connecting, and charming.A detailed breakdown of what people look for in friends, rapport, and social skills.Social Equations is a book of research and iteration. This means that each formula has been verified and confirmed by psychologists and researchers, and then broken down into use for daily life.People often complain that there is too much to implement and think about when they read similar books. But this book simplifies matters into simple equations. It's like a book of cheat sheets that you can constantly refer to and then slowly turn into habit.The absolute best methods to make friends and keep them - as verified by scientists.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Tips for every type of situation you can find yourself in on a daily basis.-The four elements that make up friendship, and why it's not really about true "chemistry"-An actual formula for humor and making people laugh that stand-up comedians also use-How to speak so people will actually listen to your points-Ice breaking and introducing in any social context - how to make that first impression-What comprises trust, the most important relationship factor-What "zombie conversations" are and how to escape them before they get you
Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette, (Un)common Sense, & How to Act
Say please and thank you. Don't stand still in front of a door. Say hi and smile. Don't ask about salary.Is life so complicated? No, but the truth is that these are all unspoken and unwritten social rules. That means you need to learn them.Learn all the social no-nos you've committing your entire life and fix them!Unspoken Social Rules & Etiquette is a guidebook for the modern age. Ever wonder why some people glare at you, or what happened that someone won't return your calls? You probably violated a piece of our society's unwritten and unspoken social rules.This is not a small deal! These are small indicators that will repulse people and prevent them from investing in you. Understand how you can better blend in anywhere, and make a lasting impression.Some of these are obvious, some are not. Learn what you should have learned when you were 5 years old.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He suffered for years as a shy introvert and managed to boil human interaction down to a science - first for himself, and now for you.He is without doubt a uniquely qualified individual to teach you these tactics.Subtle signs to make leave a lasting positive impression on anyone you meet. - Etiquette in public spaces - Small talk guidelines on building comfort and avoiding discomfort - An easy framework for introductions - The golden rule of respect and reciprocity - How to stop giving unsolicited opinions - Personal space - a user's manual - Navigating social misfires and miscues... conflict resolution Foolproof methods to control how others perceive you.
Massive Charisma
Develop your own personal gravity with concrete skills to stand out, be noticed, and captivate people.If you (1) walk into a room and feel invisible, or (2) want to ensure you make a powerful personal impact – NEWSFLASH: you need better advice than “fake it ‘til you make it” or “just be yourself.”Confidently approach and excel in any social setting.MASSIVE CHARISMA is a book that just might fundamentally change how you interact with others. Never before have you looked behind the curtain of so-called charismatic people and the subtle ways they act and think differently. You get the “how to” along with the “why” and a multitude of illustrative examples.We are always told that our interpersonal skills are the key to what we want in life, and it’s true. Let the actionable tips, questions, approaches, and replicable techniques in this book be your guide to growing your sense of personal magnetism and charm.Advice from an internationally-known, professional charisma coach.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and teaches charisma and social skills for a living. He’s also a late bloomer and former social recluse – he made the transformation, knows exactly what it takes, and can relate to you every step of the way – advice from someone who simply gets it.He has been featured in: GQ Magazine, Tedx, Forbes, Men’s Fitness, and the Huffington Post.The highly focused advice will teach you what matters in an interaction, from beginning to end, subtle to obvious, small to big.•How to wield your attention and focus for maximum impact.•How choosing and being a role model help your charisma quotient.•The subconscious body language signals that matter.•How to exude true empathy and warmth.Solve: small talk, interviews, networking events, and strangers.•How to demonstrate your value, confidence, and powerful presence.•How to tailor your communication and speak to individuals.•How to listen and validate effectively.•The top charisma mistakes people unknowingly commit.Charisma is the one skill that opens all the doors you want in life, and the benefits are endless.
I Feel Heard
The most underrated relationship skill that will transform every single interaction."I feel heard" - what a magical sentence to hear from someone. It represents so many positive emotions. This is something we can create on demand. Let's learn how.Instantly understand what people want to hear and what they care about.This book is about understanding healthy relationships and what they are based on. Communication is tough, and we all have unhelpful tendencies. You'll read about what you're doing, identify it, and re-direct your efforts into building bridges rather than walls.You’ll learn actionable techniques and frameworks to have the most productive conversations of your life - ones that will walk away with people praising how empathetic you are. Most importantly, you will gain profound insights on how to reprogram yourself into a natural communicator.Conflicts won't arise if people simply feel heard and validated.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. His struggles in his early relationships has inspired him to unravel practical ways to cultivate meaningful interactions.Raise the standard for your relationships.Establish vulnerable, fulfilling and satisfying relationships.•Normalizing a non-judgmental perspective•The 6 levels of validation and why you cannot skip a single step•How couples therapists run their sessions, and how you can steal their blueprint•Active listening and reflecting techniques•Toxic positivity and the avoidance of actual validation•Conflict, disagreement, and listening to hear and understand•Active constructive responses and how they get people to open up instantly
The Science of Likability
100% scientifically-proven ways to make friends quickly, turn enemies into friends, gain trust, and be flat-out likable. Utilize the most interesting, shocking, and counterintuitive findings in psychological science to simply make people want to be around you.The Science of Likability takes over 60 seminal scientific and psychological studies and breaks them down into real, usable guidelines and tips to create the presence you have always wanted. Every piece of advice in this book to increase your social standing and likability factor is 100% backed by in-depth, peer-reviewed research, and it goes far beyond simple common sense and intuition. Learn how to subconsciously make yourself likable, trustworthy, and intelligent. You can get a new haircut and wardrobe, and you even learn knock-knock jokes. But likability is something more. It's subconscious, and it's about the small signs that signal our brains to let their guards down, seek others out, and embrace them. We know what to do if we want to make someone hate us - we now also know what to do to become someone's favorite person. Understand what makes people tick, and strategically give it to them. - How to take advantage of people's memories for your sense of charm.- The power of equity in relationships and friendships.- A literal formula for "friendship chemistry."- The real way to use eye contact to build trust.- Why tripping and being vulnerable in front of people is positive.- Universal definitions of charisma, wit, and humor - seriously. Universal.
Mendengarkan dengan Hati
Saat ini, seni mendengarkan secara mendalam adalah suatu kekuatan super. Jika dapat membuat seseorang merasa didengarkan, Anda tidak akan menemui kesulitan untuk meraih hatinya. Dan hal itu tidak sesulit dan serumit yang Anda bayangkan.Mendengarkan dengan Hati adalah buku tentang hubungan. Suatu hubungan harus bersifat memberi dan menerima—apakah Anda menerima lebih dari yang Anda berikan? Apakah Anda membuat orang merasa nyaman bersikap terbuka kepada Anda? Apakah Anda mendengarkan dengan baik, atau tanpa Anda sadari Anda adalah orang yang narsis dalam suatu hubungan? Inilah waktunya mempelajari keterampilan yang tidak hanya membantu orang saat dibutuhkan, tetapi juga menciptakan persahabatan baru dengan siapa saja—karena, siapa yang tidak suka didengarkan?Patrick King adalah penulis buku laris internasional dan pelatih keterampilan sosial. Tulisannya mengambil berbagai sumber, mulai dari penelitian ilmiah, pengalaman akademis, sampai pengalaman nyata.
Mental Toughness & Iron Will
Two people get knocked down. One rises to the challenge, while the other one stays down for good. How will you live your life? Can you plan your life to avoid the inevitable obstacles and hardships? No, because if you get past the first obstacle, the second or the third will take you down. Life is tough, which means you should get a helmet. Welcome to your life helmet. Train yourself to prepare for the worst while expecting the best. Mental Toughness & Iron Will is a guidebook into becoming someone who stops at nothing to achieve their goals. What is mental toughness? It is a mindset and state of being - it comes from deep habits, skills, and thought patterns. You’ll learn all of those, and also how to put them into immediate action. This book is the rocket boost to get you to invincibility. Learn to build bulletproof mental armor. Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience. He’s well-versed in mental toughness and how it is one of the keys to getting ahead in life. Mental toughness techniques used by top 1% performers. •The importance and biological imperative of mental toughness.•How to face failure and fear head-on.•Emotional thinking and how to bypass it. Overcome your emotions and rely on your iron will. •How we distort our realities and self-sabotage - and how to stop it.•Building the skill and habit of mental toughness and resilience.•Characteristics of the mentally weak and lacking. Become relentless, persistent, and unstoppable in achieving your goals.
Limitless
Is your fear of failure making life pass you by? Stuck in quicksand, longing for more, and wasting your potential? Do what ifs haunt you at night? Is something missing from your life... and are you your own worst enemy? You can create the life you want. Limitless teaches you every step, including a 6-point action plan, to success you’ve been too scared to reach for. This is a book of ACTION and doesn’t just tell you to fake it ‘til you make it or think big. Life rewards the those who take matters into THEIR OWN HANDS, and this book is where to start. Limitless is full of real-life anecdotes and examples, proven techniques of high-performers that are household names, and phenomena backed up countless research studies, all of which will arm you with a mindset primed for success and powerful, concrete techniques. As a social success coach, I uniquely understand what drives success – starting with my own career leap from the legal field into creating the life I wanted. I've lived your path, I know exactly what's holding you back, and I can help. Noted bestselling author Derek Doepker and peak performance coach lends his thoughts in an insightful foreword.Find out how to let go of your fears and take flight towards success, period. How will you learn to conquer your goals? •Learn the simple power of altering your reality.•Why your strengths are much more fulfilling than passions.•What a former world-record mile runner has to do with success.•Success boiled down to three easy elements. And further ways to maximize your potential? •The right way to visualize and “think big.”•How to uniquely position decisions for short and long-term success.•How to defeat the perfectionism devil.•The surprising value of going public with your goals.
The Art of Self-Awareness
Equal parts scientific, philosophical, and practical. Become your best self by first defining it.The Art of Self-Awareness takes you on a journey – not to an exotic destination, but inwards. It’s perilous, scary, and uncomfortable, but the end rewards will be fantastic. Self-awareness is not simply knowing your name; it’s knowing what makes you happy, what makes you sad, and the underlying beliefs and values that create those emotions.Most people look externally for answers to their problems, but that’s like putting a band-aid on top of a pothole. Everything that makes your life good or bad comes from within and it’s time to finally learn what lies beneath.The toughest skill of all: metacognition, which is thinking about your thinking. Learn the keys to self-introspection and how a simple set of questions can answer your deepest problems. The three levels of adult self-awareness and development. Values, goals, beliefs, and how to orient yourself. Why self-awareness is actually social awareness, and how it can help you socially Empathy and social intelligence The keys to avoiding self-delusion and self-sabotage.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience.Self awareness is social awareness. Know thyself and your relationships will benefit tenfold.Self-awareness is not just a journey about yourself, it involves the people around you. Understanding how your own emotions, values, and beliefs work will finally allow you to truly empathize with your friends, family, and significant other.To get to Point B, you must know what Point A is. Read this book to find your starting point, your end goal, and what must happen in between!
Am I Actually the Strongest? 5 (light novel)
Reincarnated in an alternate world where magic rules all, Haruto Zenfis has one goal in life: to be a lazy shut-in and watch anime all day. And he will spare no effort to achieve it. Thanks to his little sister Charlotte and her crew (with a bit of a boost from her favorite superhero Shiva), the kingdom is saved from evil. Haruto can finally go back to plotting the best way to get expelled from school-that is, until he realizes that his meticulous plan has a blindside! With a new-and-improved plan in place, he must put his magical skills to the test. Volume four of the comedy-packed series by Sai Sumimori!